Supporting your Wellbeing this Christmas

Supporting your Wellbeing this Christmas

Have you taken a minute to stop and consider your wellbeing this Christmas?

For many people, ‘the most wonderful time of the year’ can actually feel like the exact opposite. With lots of extra tasks to do, increased social commitments, and obligations to buy and send cards and presents, many people can often feel exhausted by the time December 25th actually arrives. In fact, according to the Mental Health Foundation, “Christmas can be a joyful time of year for some people, through connecting to people they love and joining in with celebrations. And it can be a hard time of year for others, through feelings of obligation and over-commitment to social plans, disruption in routine or an increase in feelings of loneliness and isolation”.

With this in mind, we’ve put together some simple tips that can help you feel more in control, reduce stress levels, and help you take care of your mental health over the next few weeks.

Tips for Coping During the Festive Season

Plan Ahead

Writing a ‘to do’ list helps many people to cope because it helps you to plan your time more efficiently. There’s a lot of expectation at this time of year for things to be ‘perfect’, and many people find Christmas incredibly stressful with not enough time to get everything done. We can find ourselves juggling numerous tasks on top of an already busy work, home, and social calendar. Evaluate the essential tasks, prioritise the things that really need doing, delegate jobs where possible, and give yourself permission to say no to the rest and cross them off the list. Most importantly, make sure your planning allows time for you to relax, rest and enjoy the season.

Remember that it’s not worth sacrificing your mental health in the pursuit of perfection.

Prioritise your own self-care by putting time aside for a hot bath, a nice walk, some exercise, or to watch your favourite movie. Do whatever you can that you enjoy that helps you feel relaxed and content, remember this is your Christmas too.

 

Set Boundaries

For many people, Christmas can be a time when difficult relationships are revisited and old tensions can resurface. As well as worrying about preparing and providing food and buying the best gifts, it can be a challenging time for people who have strained relationships with their wider family, those who suffer anxiety, or people with financial worries.

Put a baseline in place that feels comfortable for you – whether that’s setting a budget to spend on presents or letting colleagues know that you won’t be sending Christmas cards this year. Anything that you can do to manage people’s expectations and avoid confusion is beneficial to reducing your stress levels. Keep the lines of communication open with the people you do (and don’t!) want to spend the holidays with,

Think in advance about how you might handle difficult conversations and practice how to ask someone to change the subject if there’s a topic you don’t feel comfortable with. Why not think about some answers you could give if there are questions you know might be asked that make you feel uncomfortable?

Give some thought to potential easy group activities that everyone can get involved in. This will help to reduce tension and provide a distraction from any controversial topics. And remember that it’s OK to let people know if you’re struggling and need help, whether that’s physically or emotionally. And it’s perfectly alright to say ‘No’.

 

Make Time For Fresh Air and Exercise

Exercise can help combat stress by releasing endorphins (the body’s feel good hormone). Regularly exercising over the festive period can help improve your mental health and ensure you’re less stressed and more able to cope with pressures and demands.

Find an activity you enjoy doing – walking the dog, raking leaves in the garden, a family walk in a frosty forest, anything that gets you up and off the sofa and outside – even half an hour of fresh air and exercise is really beneficial.

And don’t let the weather be a barrier to exercise, there are plenty of free online workout videos available for every ability level – or why not get the whole family playing Twister? If you fancy yourself as a mover, you could even learn a dance routine or have a go at a music and dance game on the kid’s consoles!

 

Working from Home at Christmastime

For a number of our customers, working from home is now a permanent fixture of their lives and it works well. For many, hybrid working between home and the office is also a normal feature of their working lives. Juggling multiple tasks, in different locations, whilst commuting during bad weather can quickly become overwhelming. We developed our Homeworking Online Training to support employees working from home and to help employers maintain their duty of care to all staff.

The following hints and tips are aimed more specifically at supporting home or hybrid workers, although all of them are beneficial for anyone, wherever you may be working at this time of year:

Stay in Touch

Keeping in touch with the rest of your team, whether that’s by email, phone or video call is really important. By nature, we are social creatures and home working can feel especially isolating at this time of year. Why not suggest a team Christmas quiz or drinks on video call if you can’t all get together, or even meet a local colleague face to face if you can. Wrap up warm and go for a walk in the fresh air with a hot drink and have a catch up.

Keep in touch with friends and family too, but on your terms. Decide what works for you and make contact, whether that’s by phone, text, or a face to face Christmas meal or get together.

Make sure you speak to someone outside your home at least once per day. Talking to other people can help support your mood and wellbeing, and the old saying ‘a problem shared is a problem halved’ is well worth remembering.

Take Yourself for a Walk

If you can’t meet someone for a walk, what’s stopping you from getting out there by yourself and having a quick walk around the block before work or during your lunch break? (Apart from the great British weather – although that’s what umbrellas and waterproofs are for). This tip is personally advocated by me. As a homeworker, I make time for a walk around the block before I start work whatever the weather. It’s become a highlight of my day as I cross paths with dog walkers and people walking to their place of work and as regular morning walkers we all now greet each other with a smile and cheery ‘Good Morning!’

You can also use the time mindfully to notice your surroundings and focus on your breathing, or listen to a funny podcast or some uplifting music while you walk. Even 20 minutes per day can make a big difference, with a brisk walk proven to reduce stress and increase concentration levels.

Keep Home and Work Separate

The boundaries between home and work have become very blurred over the last couple of years, with research by Aviva finding that more than 50% of home workers struggle to switch off from work or keep their home life separate from work. ‘Finishing work’ for the day has become a grey area and home and work life can quickly merge into one.

Building boundaries is an important behavioural aspect of mental health self-care. Some people set an alarm to signify the end of the working day and then ‘closing the door’ on the home office once you finish work. And if like many people, your work space is in your dining room or bedroom, even the act of putting a blanket over your desk at the end of the day can help signal the transition to your brain and help you to switch off from work. Making sure you maintain work-free zones throughout your home during the festive season helps you switch off and unwind from the daily grind.

Consider a Digital Detox

After work, disconnect from your devices and enjoy a screen-free home environment. Consider dedicating specific evenings or weekends to step away from digital distractions, fostering connections with yourself and those around you. During holiday times such as Christmas, resist the pressure to stay constantly connected on social media. Instead, allocate time for screen-free activities with family, such as playing games, baking, or enjoying a quiz. If you prefer solitude, use a digital detox to read a book or take time to indulge in some self-care

 

 

The Benefits of a Digital Detox

1.Reduces stress.

2. Allows for a more positive perspective on life without the constant bombardment of social media.

3. Better sleep – anxiety, insomnia and increased stress have all been linked to scrolling social media in bed at night. The blue light emitted by devices can also affect serotonin levels and disrupt your sleep pattern.

4. Helps you avoid comparing your life to other people’s. Constantly checking your phone to make sure you haven’t missed a text, email, or notification can increase stress levels (and waste a lot of time!). Checking your social media newsfeed and constantly seeing pictures of other people having ‘the best Christmas ever’ can create anxiety, lower self esteem, and distract us from focusing on the present moment. Knowing your device is off and you’re not contactable by the outside world can bring peace of mind and a feeling of calm. Allowing yourself to be more mindful and enjoy the present moment is incredibly beneficial for mental wellbeing.

Don’t Forget to Treat Yourself

You don’t have to spend a fortune, in fact there’s plenty you can do for free – run a deep bubble bath, make your favourite meal, put your feet up in front of the TV – do whatever makes you feel good. Taking time out for ourselves is proven to reduce stress and anxiety, increase self esteem, protect mental health and lead to better relationships in the long run.Constantly focusing on giving and doing can leave us feeling exhausted and overwhelmed. So don’t hesitate to be a bit selfish so you can care for your own physical, emotional and mental wellbeing.

 

Further Help and Resources

If you need more in depth help and support, remember that the following organisations are available over the Christmas period and beyond, should you need them.

Mind (0300 123 3393)

National Domestic Abuse Helpline (0808 2000 247)

NHS (111 for general advice or 999 in an emergency)

Samaritans (116123)

The Trussell Trust (01722 580180)

 

If you feel that your organisation could benefit from help and support with wellbeing training, contact us on 01332 208500. We’ve got online training covering everything from Domestic Abuse to Menopause, Mental Health First Aid to Drug and Alcohol Awareness . As well as being experts in bespoke wellbeing elearning, we’ve also got lots of courses aimed at helping you to understand and prevent Stress.

 

Why does your organisation need a Mental Health First Aider?

Why does your organisation need a Mental Health First Aider?

What is Mental Health First Aid?

1 in 4 people in UK experience mental illness each year. The Office for National Statistics report that 15.8 million UK work days were lost due to mental illness in 2016, and this number is thought to have increased drastically since the Covid-19 Pandemic. In fact, mental health charity Mind have found that ‘poor mental health is now the number 1 reason we miss work’.

According to the Health and Safety Executive (HSE), “workplaces should consider appropriate ways to manage mental ill health such as providing information or training for managers and employees, employing occupational health professionals, appointing mental health trained first aiders, and implementing employee support programmes”.

Mental health first aid is the help you give to an individual who may be developing a mental health problem or experiencing a worsening of an existing mental health problem or condition. This first aid can be given until the person has been given access to, or received the appropriate professional treatment or support.

Mental Health First Aider

What is the Purpose of a Workplace Mental Health First Aider?

The Health and Safety (First-Aid) Regulations 1981 require you to ‘provide adequate and appropriate first-aid equipment, facilities and people so your employees can be given immediate help if they are injured or taken ill at work’ and most workplaces will have one or more First Aiders (depending on the amount of employees they have and other risk factors).  However, there is currently no legal requirement for an organisation to have a Mental Health First Aider – although many organisations are starting to realise the importance of supporting mental health alongside supporting physical health.

Mental Health First Aiders usually undertake the role alongside their current role in the workplace. They can be members of staff, managers, or HR representatives and they are the first point of contact for any employees or staff members who may be struggling with their mental health. This could include (but is not limited to) those experiencing stress, bereavement, anxiety or depression. Often an employee might approach a Mental Health First Aider because they’re having a tough time and just need someone to talk to. Through undertaking training, a Mental Health First Aider is taught how to listen without judgement and to be able to identify the warning signs of mental ill health. Their training will also ensure that they are able to support mental health emergency situations – although they are not a replacement or substitute for a trained therapist or counsellor.

A Mental Health First Aider can direct employees in the direction of appropriate support options such as their GP, the Samaritans, or other mental health charities or therapists either via the NHs or privately. Some workplaces offer Employee Assistance Programmes which provide a limited number of free therapy sessions and a Mental Health First Aider can help support an employee to arrange this.

Mental Health First Aiders are:

  • Able to act in a confidential manner
  • Someone who can remain calm under pressure
  • Individuals who want to learn more about mental health and support others
  • Good communicators who can open and support mental health conversations
  • Able to self-care and protect their own mental health whilst caring for the mental health of others

Mental Health First Aid Training in the Workplace

Many organisations now provide Mental Health Awareness Training to their employees either as a part of their induction, or during their ongoing employment training. This can help employees understand the different factors that can affect mental health and let them obtain the knowledge and support they need for dealing with mental health issues should they arise.

Some organisations also provide First Aid Training courses that also cover mental health and teach people how to recognise and deal with warning signs of mental ill health as well as physical health.

Mental Health First Aid Training takes that next step by specifically teaching individuals how to notice and support others who may be experiencing mental health issues, and helps them to develop the skills and confidence to approach and support someone without putting themselves at risk. Mental Health First Aiders are also often taught to deal with more serious mental health emergencies such as a mental health breakdown or attempted suicide. Many organisations now appoint a staff member to undertake this role in the same way in which they may have a First Aider to deal with injury and illness.

The aims of Mental Health First Aid Training are:

  • To develop a greater understanding of workplace mental health and be able to work towards reducing stigma
  • To help you understand the roles and responsibilities of employers and employees in achieving better mental health in the workplace
  • To highlight the issue of stress in the workplace
  • To give you an increased confidence around mental health issues
  • To demonstrate the importance of early intervention
  • To help you be able to develop and understand a wellness strategy in the workplace

If you’d like to find out more about Mental Health First Aid Training or the other training courses available to support employee mental health then please don’t hesitate to get in touch. RealSense work in collaboration with industry experts to ensure our training is accredited, relevant, engaging and informative. We can also provide bespoke training tailored exactly for the needs of you and your workforce alongside our off-the-shelf course library of over 120 training courses.

How Menopause Friendly is Your Workplace?

How Menopause Friendly is Your Workplace?

Menopause. Until recently, it’s a word that so many of us have been afraid to mention, especially at work.

But suddenly, everyone is talking about menopause and perimenopause. High profile women from media, politics, business, and sport are all breaking down the taboo and talking menopause. In the UK, celebrities such as Davina McCall, Lorraine Kelly and Lisa Snowdon have spoken out about their experiences of the menopause, and opened the topic of conversation for thousands of women. Figures show that in the UK there are approximately 13 million people experiencing menopause – that’s one third of the female population! And 80% of them are now working through menopause and beyond. In fact, the average woman is now found to work for 16 years after transitioning through menopause. And this menopause transition takes place over days, weeks, months, and years, all while working. Unlike pregnancy or maternity, the menopause is not well understood or provided for in workplace cultures, policies, or training, and until recently the importance of understanding the menopause in the context of the workplace had been overlooked.

So, what is Menopause?

During mid-life, a woman’s oestrogen levels start to decline, and eventually she will stop having periods. Symptoms of declining oestrogen can last for up to 15 years, so the menopause is more of a ‘transition’ than a one-off event. The years leading up to menopause are known as perimenopause and this stage comes with a number of symptoms. Some women may experience all these symptoms, others none at all. The majority sit somewhere in the middle, with the NHS reporting that ‘about 8 out of ten women will have symptoms for some time before or after their periods stop’. These symptoms can have a significant impact on daily life for many women. Symptoms can be physical, psychological, or cognitive and can include (but are not limited to):

  • Hot flushes – short, sudden feelings of heat, usually in the face, neck, or chest
  • Night sweats – hot flushes that occur at night
  • Difficulty sleeping
  • Fatigue
  • Irregular or heavy periods
  • Problems with memory and concentration / ‘brain fog’
  • Headaches
  • Mood changes such as low mood or anxiety
  • Palpitations
  • Joint stiffness, aches, and pains
  • Recurrent urinary tract infections (UTIs) and other

As oestrogen receptors are present throughout the whole body, when this hormone starts to decline or become erratic, a woman may also experience problems with the reproductive tract, heart and blood vessels, bones, skin, hair, nails, pelvic muscles or brain. The menopause can also increase the risk of osteoporosis and cardiovascular problems. The Alzheimer’s Society also reports that “researchers think oestrogen may cause the body to make more antioxidants, protecting brain cells from damage. This could explain why the sudden drop in women’s oestrogen levels following menopause seems to make them more vulnerable to Alzheimer’s”. Clearly, there’s more to menopause than just feeling a bit hot while waiting for periods come to an end. Fortunately, through increased publicity, women are becoming more aware of the choices they have to help them through the menopause transition. Celebrities such as Davina McCall have worked with menopause experts such as Dr Louise Newson to provide clear, evidence-based information to women about Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) and its alternatives. Almost daily, articles and information about menopause are being discussed and provided on news websites such as the BBC and factual TV shows such as This Morning. However, support for menopausal women in the workplace still lags behind mainstream media. The TUC found that ‘9 out of 10 menopausal women say symptoms have had a negative effect on their work and they wouldn’t tell their employer the real reason they were taking a sick day, instead stating anxiety or stress’. Dorothy Byrne (previous editor in large at Channel 4 and Head of News and Current Affairs) gave a Mactaggart lecture at Edinburgh Television festival and summed it up for many women when she stated that “even getting your boss to understand there is such a thing as the menopause can be a problem”.

How do perimenopause and menopause affect the workplace?

 

The Government Report on Menopause found that menopausal women are the fastest growing demographic in the workplace and according to the Faculty of Occupational Medicine, around 80% of menopausal age women are in work. Consequently, at any time, a significant proportion of the workforce will be experiencing menopause symptoms. Many employers are still unaware of these symptoms which affect their workforce on a daily basis, which is why it’s more important than ever to tackle this previously taboo topic and raise awareness to create more inclusive and supportive environments. CIPD research led by YouGov found that:

  • 65% of menopausal women said they were less able to concentrate at work
  • 52% said they felt less patient with clients and colleagues
  • 30% had taken sick leave because of their symptoms but only a quarter felt able to tell their manager the real reason for their absence

Louise Newsome’s research also found than one in eight female employees had resigned from their work due to menopausal symptoms, and 21% had not applied for a promotion because they felt that their symptoms held them back. Additionally, the workplace itself can exacerbate menopause symptoms in a multitude of ways. Here are just a few:

  • Inadequate ventilation, high temperatures and humidity can increase hot flushes
  • Stress related to workload, meetings and job role can all impact anxiety and low mood
  • The physical demands of the job – such as using machinery – can worsen aching joints and headaches, and make heavy periods harder to manage

Many women feel that they can’t raise these issues or talk about their symptoms as employers might think they can no longer do their job. They fear being stereotyped or worry that they will be mocked, or made to look foolish. The TUC found that women can feel embarrassed to raise the topic of menopause, and many feel like they won’t be taken seriously. Research into the impact of menopause on the workplace is ongoing, and the TUC reports that ‘a common theme is lack of awareness and empathy, and ignorance around menopause and its impact from line managers and colleagues in general’. Not receiving adequate support at work can have a negative effect on any individual in the workplace including:

  • Reduced engagement with work
  • Reduced job satisfaction
  • Reduced commitment to an organisation
  • Higher sickness absence
  • An increased desire to leave

In fact, according to HR Review, the UK is losing up to 14 million working days per year due to menopause. The lack of awareness around menopause in the workplace is now becoming a significant issue, prompting MP Carolyn Harris to put the Menopause (Support and Services) Bill before the House of Commons, seeking the provision of support for women experiencing menopause – including in the workplace.

What can my organisation do?

Women experiencing menopause symptoms are more likely to speak up when their managers or colleagues are empathetic, and say they value their support. An inclusive, supportive workplace culture overcomes barriers, and cares for the wellbeing of employees. Large organisations like Sainsburys and Boots are already leading the way with supporting menopause at work, but smaller workplaces and those without unions may be less knowledgeable or unsure how to support menopause at work, even if they want to. The following steps can help support both employers and employees, and are useful for anyone either transitioning through menopause or those supporting people at work during this time.

Respect the Law

Employers have a legal duty of care to support employees in the workplace. Under the Equality Act 2010, discrimination against menopause can fall under the three protected characteristics of age, sex, and disability discrimination. Additionally, the parliamentary Women and Equalities Committee states that ‘The Health and Safety at Work Act (1974) provides for safe working, which extends to the working conditions when experiencing menopausal symptoms’. Every organisation is different, but the law applies to us all.

Make Workplace Adjustments

Examples of reasonable adjustments to working conditions often include things like working from home or adapting your chair or office furniture. Most women have to keep working through their menopause, so small changes can often make a big difference. For those with menopausal symptoms, adjustments might include providing more comfortable uniforms, allowing more flexible working hours or giving more frequent bathroom breaks. Michelle Obama spent 8 years at the White House as first lady while transitioning through menopause. In an interview with obstetrician and gynaecologist Sharon Malone, she explained her husband’s response (former president Barack Obama) when he found out that a number of members of staff were going through menopause. He stated ‘well turn the air conditioner on!’ Obama recognised the importance of adjusting the workplace environment to help keep his team feeling comfortable and doing their jobs well. Not all modern workplaces have air conditioning, but you could provide your team with desk fans or similar to help combat hot flushes.

Focus on Wellbeing

Guidance from the Faculty of Occupational Health suggests that regularly checking in with employee wellbeing can be helpful, and many workplaces now have Workplace Wellbeing schemes focusing on Mental Health. If you already provide staff with information about healthy eating, meditation, the benefits of exercise and sleep behaviours, then all of these can be used to help support menopause. Taking proactive steps to create a more open, supportive culture and modelling healthy behaviours is a good place to start.

Update Workplace Policies

Make sure that you have a clear, concise Menopause Policy which includes all the reasonable adjustments that can be made in the workplace, and signposts employees to help and support, both inside your organisation and through external bodies and charities. Implement a zero-tolerance policy for mockery, jokes, and disrespectful behaviour.

Improve Communication

How comfortable are you talking to your colleagues about menopause? Provide an open, supportive workplace culture to help overcome barriers. Why not put a menopause symptoms list in the staff room, where all employees can read it? You could hold training sessions or workshops for employees. Some companies provide health checks –  menopause awareness could be included in these. Menopause support is very much a part of Occupational Health so speak to your HR or wellbeing teams to see what they can do to help.

Menopause Training for the Workplace

Numerous companies have reached out to us in the last 2 years, desperate for workplace menopause training to support their teams. Thus, our Menopause Awareness Training training was born. Designed and developed with menopause experts, it gives you a clear understanding of the importance of supporting menopause at work.

Our online training is 30 minutes long, accessible by anyone, anywhere, and provides all the information you need to support those affected by menopause as well as their colleagues, family, partners, and friends. The course explores the types and stages of menopause, looks at menopause in the LGBTQIA+ community, and explains the symptoms of menopause in more detail. Importantly, extensive details about supporting menopause at work are given and there’s lots of information about starting the conversation about menopause as well as acting with confidentiality. Easy to use, with well defined chapters, and real-life case studies, the course reinforces the message that everyone needs to talk about menopause and breaks down this last remaining workplace taboo.

Click here if you’d like to try our Menopause Awareness training course. We also design and develop bespoke digital learning, working with a number of leading organisations across the UK. So if you need more extensive training, tailored specifically to you and your team, then get in touch.